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Before talking about orgies, I want to say something about the nature of sex. Originally sex was made for procreation. Mother Nature, whose goal is to procreate endowed people and other creatures with tremendous amount of energy and supplies for it: every man shoots out millions of sperms, meanwhile every woman contains millions of eggs. Most of it goes to waste, but to ensure at least partial success, Trickster Nature gave us such intense desire and pleasure, that no one can resist the thing called "sex". So everybody gets horny, everyone wants to fuck, but you know why?- because your body tells you: make babies! Yes, every woman dress hot, moves hot, desire sex because she wants to get pregnant, often completely unaware of it. Every man wants to shoot cum out of his balls to make some female pregnant, lasting after the biggest tits and asses that ensure a good mother. You body is the dictator of sex, but not for pleasure itself: for procreation. Sex for pleasure only , strictly speaking, is a speculation and abusing of Nature. Taken to extreme, it creates imbalance and makes the Mother Nature angry, that results in sexual diseases. Therefore, Bible was right: sex for pleasure is sin. And there is nothing to do with moral values when we talk about sex, moral belong to the mind "don't steal, don't kill", but sex belong to the body. Therefore, anything you do, that true to your body, is rightful - that's what Tantricas would say, anyway. The only sinful things in sex is when it is not for procreation, therefore, sex between two men is sin, as Bible mentioned. You can still enjoy a good orgy, but know who is behind the action: the Goddess, the Goddess Nature, listen to her. With the right understanding and clear mind you will keep pure in the midst of wildest group sex. Now listen about orgies, in which I am a great expert:

Why swing? To bring new excitement into stable but boring relationship. New sex partners are exiting, but your spouse brings depth, and combination of both is perfect. You'll get much deeper satisfaction with your wife and some hot chick around - better than with hot chick along, it will be superficial. You relate to your steady partner on the level of hormones, your body chemistry, and this connection is powerful, do not neglect it, instead, utilize it - your sex will be amazing. This is true for both genders, of course. All you need is to be open-minded and couscous about keeping your relationship mutually hot and happy. And don't be jealous, jealousy is bull shit and not worth your time, because life is short, make it as happy and enlightening as possible. There are techniques to it, just follow the techniques. Of course, every relationship is different, and you have to try different thing to see what works for you the best.

This is the only chance to learn and develop sexually in a very short period of time. This is a chance to know the difference. For partners, who stay in a long term relationship and faithful to each other it is an opportunity to learn more and develop together. Partners shouldn't be afraid of loosing your partner. If you truly love each other, it is a great thing to do together and share your experiences. It is like taking a course of sexual arts. You also meet so many interesting people; it's really becoming a social event. Life stile can be a cure for a boredom within the couple. Often, for years husband and wife get so bored with each other sexually, they don't find sex exiting or hot any more. They just get indifferent with each other, or one of them get indifferent and another hurt. All of it brings emotional problems and divorce. Swinging can bring relationship to a different level, you will have fun together, some really special thing to share and see each other in all new light. Swing is exciting thing to do together! You have to trust each other enough not to get jealous and love each other enough enjoy your partner's pleasure. Care enough to be both happy. It really can make you much more closer.

Here is how usually a swing party goes:

We all get together in someone apartment or some place else, like rent a sauna. Usually it is a mix of people who already know each other and some new couples being introduced. Everybody are so friendly, you will fill like home. Afterwards, we got together to fuck. At first, although, everything is just like a regular party, may be, regular nudist party, if everybody decide to get naked right away. Usually, though, we socialize at first, have couple of drinks and as atmosphere gets more hot, someone begin to play with someone, another go take shower together and invite more people with them and someone takes off pants and fucks. I don't know exactly how it's starts, but it gets totally outrageous when everybody get naked and do whatever they want. You see, swingers are emotionally and physically healthy people, no one ever gets crazy or weird. And everybody use condoms at any time. It is a RULE. Unless you are with your own partner. Make sure your partner- because when so many body parts around, you never know whose dick it is or tong or tits or pussy. Especially if it's dark. You always can get private, of course, but it's fun when it's all together and a lot. Basically, do whatever you feel like. There is, however, one rule: do not force your will on others, rather, suggest and be gentle. Fortunately, swingers are very open-minded people. After first passionate wave everybody get hungry and rush to the kitchen or a buffet for snacks and drinks. For drinks we prefer vodka and for food- stakes! During that everybody have a chance to have a closer look at characters, they just had sex with. At this point you fill so close to everybody, it fills like family and you love everybody. And here is a real delight will start. Now everybody are satisfied and begin to be sensual and tender and dig for a real gold. It's when a community becomes one big ecstasy and whatever you do: fuck, lick or watch is delightful and full of deepest sense. This is a time you can dream of and you will tomorrow. This is when you get satisfied so deep, you didn't know you had it. You fill like you found a purpose in your life. Next morning you wake up full of energy, no hang over and sex with your partner is better than ever. It's true! Sex after swing is like eating honey together. And all over sudden you fill so calm and sure of yourself, you get successful at anything you do. The energy you having is your sexual energy you unlocked, the most powerful and stable of all. You will never will have problems with health or money or luck, you have it all now.