Sex is not a toy!

New York State has the highest rate of AIDS in the US, 155,755 people in 2002, majority are Caucasian. This is according to http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/stats.htm. Compare this rate with Dakota or Montana, where AIDS rate is the lowest: all together only about 341 persons by 2001, according to http://www.statehealthfacts.kff.org Why do you think it's New York that leads the parade? Is it because there less faggots in Montana? And when I say faggots, I don't mean homosexuals, but people who like to play with sex for the sake of playing and not out of love for each other. May be in places like Vermont or Alaska people have healthier attitudes toward sex because of their being closer to nature. Their understanding of something so natural as sex is much more original than that of sexually perverted New Yorkers.

In the big cities in general there are less marriages occur and the rate of sexually transmitted diseases in much higher then in the country side. This is not only because people have more sexual contacts, but also because their attitude towards sex is Wrong. The more people treat sex as a toy, using it solely for the sake of "getting off", the more Mother Nature turns against them giving them all kinds of deadly and shameful diseases. Main purpose of sex is procreation, and this is why sex feels so good- to make the procreation more likely. But people take the side effect and make it the main goal of their activity. We try to derive pleasure out of our bodies on every possible way using toys, piercing, weird outfits to stimulate libido, to make sexual "drive" so high that it drives us mad. People get caught in the web of their own lower manifestations of sexuality and after a while, cannot help themselves to be free from it. The game becomes a trap. Meanwhile, majority, both men and women, don't know what the good fuck is any more. The body is exhausted in sex games and plays; all that brilliant energy is spent for mere superficial indulgence. "Poor pathetic fools!!!" - Jesus would say. "You abuse a gift of Nature and it turns into a poisonous snake in your hands and bites you." How much more you can feel with a simple sincere hug, or when you just sitting quietly together. The less you work at sex, the better it is. This doesn't mean that you cannot enjoy sex and have to use it for procreation purposes only- like some of the prudish or over-religious priests would suggest. Sex is a beautiful way to connect to your lover, experience enormous bliss and perfect oneness. In the right hands sex can become a prayer. This is why it is so important for people, especially in places like New York City, to cultivate sexuality and to gain a better understanding of sexual phenomenon. We have opportunity to learn from such patriarchs of sexual culture like Tao and Tantra, who give you knowledge of how to be aware and in control of your primordial power. Having that, you will not waste gift of sex on a shallow, meaningless experience. In the worst case scenario, you will be able to turn even an odd sexual contact into a beautiful connection, fusing it with love and supreme energy, making it into a sacred dance. Of course, the chance to make sex into something beautiful is much higher if you are with a person you love and care about. With better sex, you can turn your relationship into a truly lifetime experience of beauty, love and devotion. Learn the sexual secrets from experts, and then apply your knowledge into life to make it full of love, joy and pleasure. Please, don't through the gift of nature into trash! Keep it sacred.