No, it's not your wallet. Yes, men have the ability to drive women crazy with their cock, and on deeper level, to a complete addiction and absolute control, with their semen. It's only a matter of how aware you are about your power. Everybody talk about the magnetic power of pussy, very few mention the power of cock, why is that? You can make a woman to be your slave with what you have, make her loose her mind, even manipulate her (that's not nice!), etc. Of corce, in the case of good lovers, these powers are balanced, and a friendly and passionate conversation is established.

But listen here, I'll initiate you into your super power: According to traditional Hindu physiology, semen is a magical substance, each drop of which is prodused by a hundreed drops of blood. The rasa, or energy that comes from food you eat, transforms into plasma, then blood, then flesh, then fat, then bone, then marrow, then nerve, and finally, into semen. Semen is thus a pure consentrated energy, powerful enough to hold the spirit and pass it into womb. When the semen is retained, it turnes into substance, called ojas. Ojas empower your body, sharpens mind, and make a man feel and be his best. Ojas can be transformed into spiritual fire, called tapas. You can use this fire to burn your karma, to attain siddhi and manipulate the forses of the nature, change the shape of your body, levitate and fly, acquire anything by will, control space and time and attain godlike status. Semen, energized by tapas, moves up the spine, pierces psychic nodes and reveals to the mind the mysteries of the Univerce, knowledge of past, present and future of every being. Hindu saints say that only ungodly mortals shed their semen. This is also a reason why all monks, Buddhist or Christian, that is, men who devoted their lives to achieving God, are requared to practice sexual abstence. Some of them are doing a good job, but many failed and have gotten ill in many ways, but that's different story. Well, couple of words on this: historically, monks, who were trying to avoid sex, nevetherless endulged in sensual pleasures of gourmey foods and the best liqoir they used to produce, trying to replace what they have lost on their path to infinity. But how self-deceiving this was!- a taste of pleasure awakened desire for more, which now had to be self-completing with the most sinful sex they could invent. Hey, forbidden friut is sweeter. If you begin to practice sensual abstenence, it has to be complete.

You see, withholding the semen goes against the cycle of nature, this is why it is so difficult to do: The mother Nature gets angry with her disobidient boy. The Goddess gets angry with you, her God who wants to divorce her, abandoning her volaptious body and denying her sensual pleasure. I am talking about the Goddess that lives in every man and rules his body. She wants to create, she desires children and is furious when a man denies her this.

I wouldn't advaise a regular person to practice this: it can be dangerous and you might hurt yourself, unless you have a saint as a teacher and you are absolutely single-minded about it. One of my friends wanted to learn this method in order to get self-control, he found the master, he was so eager to start...Well, the master told him to meditate and pray for a few years and then come see him again. Of couce, after a few months the guy got distructed by a new girlfriend who admired his devotion to spiritual path and his fit body. In a year they got married and now have a little boy, who sees his father is a super man, like all little boys and girls. So, in a way, the guy accomplish his quest, but on a way he didn't expected. That's just another way to consider...But, yes, in order to really move the mountains you do need years of spiritual preparation. Only with support of your father Spirit you can tame your mother Nature. But once you will learn how to elevate your counsciosness above the phisical body, a temple of the Goddess, and escape from under Her control, you will be in control of all of that tremendous amount of freed energy, which otherwise serves procreation. The energy of Nature consists of her five elements: ether, air, fire, water and earth. All magic in the world is based on manipulating of the elements.This is how it is possible to bring storms, begin or stop earthquakes, make big waves, tornadous, play with Nature who are now under your control. Again, this practice is for ascetics. The one, who seeks the power, eather avoids contact with woman, or, if he makes love, he does not ejaculate, leaving his lover somewhat frustrated. But again, the latter is self-deluding, the closer you are to sex the stronger the urge to cum, you know that. Another effective way to get there is to follow the example of Dong Fung BuBay, the great Kung Fu master, who practiced the sacred Scroll, the path to power. To avoid all he complications, he simply castrated himself to attain the mastery of the Scroll and becom a super human - that's from Chinese mythology. Indian folclore tells us about a hero and God Hanuman, praised for his tremendous health, stamina and wisdom, who attained all of this being a bachelour for life. Well, he is immortal, so, it is forever. He is one of the most illuminated beings I have ever met. In fact, by retaining his seed he became so potent, that as story goes, he fertilised all women on the island similar to Lesbos, with his voice alone. He was flying over the island, singing, and made all these single women, who desired children, pregnant on the spot. I know, you wouldn't like to create so much liability, because this is when the wallet kicks in and you are not a billionare.

But if all you want to be is a good lover, then do shed. Goddess loves your sperm, she is not happy when you withold it from her. The shedding of semen, like sowing of seed, enchances the fertility of Nature and thus is very natural for a person who doesen't care about being a magic man. But it's good to know your potentials, isn't it?