Untitled Document

Fairytails exist with a reason: to teach us a lesson. The Sleeping Beauty tells us the truth about every woman, who has to be awaken to be "hot". They tell us about the Goddess, which has to be awaken in every person in form of sensuality, or sexual energy. And you can do it, just like the story tells, with a right kind of kiss. But do you kiss like a prince?

Love awakens the Goddess, kiss of a lover awakens her more. Some people trying so hard to get hot, stay hot, look hot, feel hot, working too hard at it and never getting to really feel anything but drive. Others try to awaken their kundalini with all kind of techniques, including Tantric sex techniques of eye gazing, breathing and stroking but end up with artificial moaning. When in fact, it is so simple: with LOVE Goddess awakens, Kundalini rushes up and all pleasure chemicals are released from the brain, more than you can experience with any drug. Love awakens Goddess and God and unites them without an effort, letting both of you experience onness that is extacy, bliss, making you both feel like that: a goddess and a god.

And what is Love? God is Love. A gift of God, an arrow of Eros. Openness of two souls, openess to each other on every level and complete trust. There are always two, and the third one-God.

Sex begins with communication, actually, sex is a type of communication, the most intimate communication of the bodies. But we begin with communication of our minds. Many men excel at this, and you can have an impression of extremely smart guy, still, for some reason women don't go to the final point with you, the moment you crave the most:sex. You feel frustrated and puzzled and don't understand what else these stupid girls want. Right! To get the body, you need to communicate to the body, not mind. Women listen to their bodies, and if pussy says "yes", it means "yes" and you got it. But when their mind say "yes" and pussy says "no", there is a little chance, unless she is counting your money. That's why they say dumb guys have more luck and sexually more attractive than the smart once- they know how to communicate to her body. Even with words, without touching you can speak to the body, make jokes, make her laugh, for example - this will be a body reaction. Laugh is relaxing and creates atmosphere of ease and comfort. Or you can dance with her, but again, relax and enjoy yourself and her body close to you - her body will react with joy, and she will want more. She knows: If her body fell good just be near you, sex will be good too. Cause body knows. Trust your body, listen to it - it is the only expert of sex.

Sometimes women are being accused by men of using their seduction powers to manipulate and control men. Well, only if men will insist! When a woman flirts, and while the underlying desire is there-(of, be flattered, she is flirting with you, that means, she initially likes you and the chemistry is there! )- sometimes she is playing for the sake of playing, for this is her self-expression of creativity and joy, the power play of the Goddess. It is like dancing for the sake of dancing, not necessarily to acquire a mate, although the original purpose of dancing is that, the mating. It is like singing for the sake of singing, out of joyful heart, abandoned health and pleasure of life. She wouldn't play just with anyone, she chouse you, and now she is going to see how you are going to react. This will determine her next step- ether she will be charmed by your respond or repulsed, or just indifferent. The biggest mistake men make is to become lustful too soon, driven by her play. Almost always women read it as a threat and withdraw; then men get frustrated and call that women "cock teasers", which is, of course, is an insult. The worst thing a man can do in this situation is to begin thinking of "why" and "how", instead of just letting it go and ride the wave with her. What she really wants is you to respond with the same kind of playfulness, that come directly from your heart and body, not a single mind, which of course, you think is your best tool and is wrong in that respect. In the world of sexuality, your great analytical mind eventually can be your worst enemy! Play back with all your heart, care, gentleness, and passion. Play back without being lost in lust, for the sake of playing, and you will pass her test of being not only smart and successful, but also someone who are not threatening as a typical male sexual predator and is so much fun to love in every way. Because this direct flirting is the invitation to explore each other more, and the possibility of love. And if eventually you will not get any, don't get upset, at least you had so much fun playing! Lust should be the least.

Hear how you treat a woman after she became yours:

Be with her, and be sensitive to her, talk to her, look into her eyes, tell her "I love you", bring her flowers and good quality chocolates occasionally. Don't be afraid to be soft and almost "feminine" with her at times, as sensuality itself has a feminine nature. It's good to be more feminine in bed, it makes you a better and a tasteful lover. This is what women are craving in their relationship: understanding - so talk to her on her language, the language of senses. You might need to learn it, but if you are willing, you will score fast. Every woman will appreciate deeply your intimate approach - and will trust you. Trust between lovers is a key word to a true Tantric sex -that is a true and unforgettable communication between you and her, full of pleasure. So, look into her eyes, tell her it's OK to just be silent together and in the moment, just be, give her a massage because she is tired.

Massage: only when the mind is quiet, you can hear the body, and you can feel. Meditate on silence, stop your thoughts, look at the body you about to touch, listen to it, than touch. Don't work too hard, pressing muskles, instead, listen to her body - it will tell you where the stress is hiding. Begin with massaging her head, press firmly enough to fill the bone. The bone deep massage gives the bone deep relaxation and makes pussy wet (yes, it does!). Massage her face, arms, legs and feet, women love their feet being caressed. And all the time squeeze her flash enough to feel the bone, and shake them a little. After this intensive treatment you can begin the erotic, sensual massage that is more soft and focused on awaking her senses and her Kundalini. Be playful here. Yes, play with her body like a child playing with sand and water. You might have a truly enlightning experiences practising this type of massage: when you go even beyond senses: when the five senses and the mind are still, and the reason rests in silence, then begins the Path of Supreme.

And then

Kiss her neck, touch her everywhere, do not rush to nipples or vagina, these erogen zones do not like forceful awakening. Stay connected to her and you'll know when she is ready for more. The key to her arousal is a correct touch, ton too rough, but strong yet sensitive, without being desperate to touch, but with sense of taste. You get the best touch when you open yourself to the person completely and enjoy what you do.

Brush lightly her pubic hair, massage the venus hill, and around the vagina, than massage lips and clitoris to the point when she is aroused, but do not over concentrate on the clitoris Tell her to relax and do not expect to have an orgasm, or make an effort to have one, or make any noises. She might make noises just for you, to make you feel you pleasing her, meanwhile she is missing real sensations. Tell her not to do anything for you, but relax and feel the subtle sensations- and you have to give her the subtle sensations. You can bring her to the orgasm , but remember that clitoral orgasm is good enough only to relax, every woman will tell you that. After clitoral stimulation, insert your finger a little deeper (about an inch) and on the upper side of vagina you'll find the famous Gspot, which is also only another stage in female satisfaction. Massage this spot till it get swollen and smooth or till she has an orgasm. How do you know she did? -don't worry about it, just do it as much as you enjoy, this thing is mutual, as long as it feels good for her- it feels good for you and vice versa. So, don't work hard, but enjoy it all. If you feel at some point you or her lost sensitivity, stop, or slow down, relax and you'll find a new, deeper wave of arousal. Ride that wave; it's very much like surfing, if you ever did surfing, you'll now, if you didn't;t, here is your chance.

Now explore and find different spots in vagina, see how they feel and let her tell you what feels and how. Some areas may be very sensitive, others numb, and others yet can hurt. If they numb, you can awake them by gently massaging- it might be connected to some block or hang ups she may have, so you release them in the most intimate way from the very depths of her being.and if some spots hurt,it usually because of some bad and hurtful experiences from past or spasms, that can leads to a serious sexual disorders in the future - now you can release them and she will be ever thankful to you for your help.Do a healing work on that spots with a gentle massage and let her express all she feels- and instead of tense up from the pain let her relax, breath, connect to the pain and let it pass while you are massaging her inside. Do not try to arouse her at this point, just be sensitive and focus your attention on releasing that blocks. As a result, all her vagina will become very sensitive, receptive and vibrant and she will be able to enjoy sex all 100% with you, plus she will really love you and appreciate your help, and will see a friend and a healer in you. This is a very helpful attitude for a good intimacy, a complete and total trust.

Now insert your finger all a way to the end and touch the cervix. It fills like a firm area with smooth surface, that get bigger and may move a little forward, when woman is aroused. Massage that area with light , sensual circle movement. This is the spot where woman arouse the most and have the deepest orgasm and sense of satisfaction. She looses control, and the body can shake when she is experiencing this kind of pleasure.

At this point, make love to her. Insert your hard cock inside of her and feel her cervix, thinking of your cock as a wand of light, penetrating her up to the top of her head, in other words, fuck her brains out. Because now she was ready for it.

Anal sex is a great aid to help her to relax. Women who have problems getting wet, have this problem because the walls of vagina are stressed and moisture is not ably to get through contracted pores, from the blood vessels. By the way, pussy juice is the most pure substance, because the moisture is pressed straight from blood, that is a sterile water. Unless, of course, the vagina itself is not polluted with toxins, in this case she should watch her diet and work of immune system. After you had anal sex, do not insert your cock in vagina again, it might cause infections. Wash it or perform the anal with the rubber, than change rubber, or take it off completely.

What else awakens the Goddess? What other pleasure do people revere as much as sex? The pleasure, that is much more accessible, very sensual, but not everybody take advantage of opportunities? The pleasure that so closely linked to the body, we cannot live without it? A pleasure of FOOD. Romantic "hors d oeuvre" that stimulate the appetite for each other. The delicious teasing appetizers that awakens the Goddess in both him and her and make life-long foreplay melt away voyage simply exuberating. He can do it for her or she can do it for him, or do it for each other.

Here are some examples of ecstatic food ideas that will set you in a most sensuous mood, which i invented myself.

pine nuts with fresh lychees

home-made gelato of honey with orange blossom souse

Dark chocolate truffles served on a rose petals with a shot of an exotic ancient Chinese liquor called Wu Liang Ye.

Hot honey over mixed berries. Add flavored liquer if more intoxication is desired.

Black caviar served on a thin slices of apple; Truffle goose liver pate on thin crisps. With a glass of your favorite champagne.

Hot chocolate drink, made of real 66% chocolate, flavoured with hot chili peppers and cinnamon. This will be her first orgasm.

Don't forget the flowers! Get her roses that are still unopened, and have full, firm bud. They will last longer and blossom beautifully. Remember, rose is the flower of Aphrodite, the goddess of Love, who you are offering to.

Recipies:

To make ice cream/ gelato sause use raw organic honey warmed with orange blossom water, which is sold in some gourmet supermarkets and health food stores, its $2.99 a bottle.

To make hot chocolate you need a device similar to french press for coffee making, to homogenise melted chocolate. Break chocolate into pieces and place in a pot of french press. Heat milk until almost boiling, add sliced chili peppers and cinnamon bark. Let simmer for 5 min for infusion of flavour. Pour milk over chokolate, let sit for 2-3 min and churn with the filter to homogenise. You can try lavander flower infusion instead of chilli/cinnamon for more soothing variation.The drink should be thik and rich, served in a small espresso cups.